Good looking, nice hair, clean shave, warm smiles etc. Is not enough to wow or make that lady want more sex from you. I met a lady who dates an older man, she had told me she never enjoyed sex, may be because it's an older man, but believe me it doesn't work that way. I do not think age is the thing her , I feel it varies from persons.
Some men get screwed up in bed not because they are not hot!!!! but because the fail to understand where the lady wants to be touched, I mean where it excites her the most.
This is a must read for men, here are some of those mistakes you make during sex and get yourself screwed up!
#Not kissing First
Avoid kissing her lips for the erogenous zones makes her feel like your are paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out non essentials. It will surprise you to know that a proper kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
#Blowing too hard in her ears
Admit it, some people would tell you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you are trying to extinguish the candles on your 40th birthday cake. That hurts real bad.
#Not shaving
That is one part I hate the most, you often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, its not passion, it's avoidance so please take note for next time.
#Squeezing her Breast
Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they got their hand on a pair. Always think of stroking, caressing and smoothing them.
#Biting her Nipples
Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they are trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive to a woman. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.
#Twiddling her Nipples
Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thump like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breast, not just the exclamation part
#Ignoring the other parts of her body
A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown vagina. So start paying them some attention.
#Getting the hand trapped
Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
#Leaving her a little present
Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, so you store it.
#Attacking the Clitoris:
Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris
#Stopping for a break
Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
#Undressing her awkwardly
Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
#Giving her a wedgie during foreplay
Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
#Being obsessed with the Vagina
Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you are not careful, it can hurt- so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her ans see if she likes it.
#Massaging too roughly
You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
#Undressing prematurely
Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if its'just undoing a couple of buttons.
#Taking your pants off first
A man in socks and underpants is at his worst. lose the socks first.
Get more of Mistakes men do during sex that get them screwed up on my next post.
#Blowing too hard in her ears
Admit it, some people would tell you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you are trying to extinguish the candles on your 40th birthday cake. That hurts real bad.
#Not shaving
That is one part I hate the most, you often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner's face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, its not passion, it's avoidance so please take note for next time.
#Squeezing her Breast
Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they got their hand on a pair. Always think of stroking, caressing and smoothing them.
Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they are trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive to a woman. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. pretending they're a dogie toy isn't.
#Twiddling her Nipples
Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thump like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breast, not just the exclamation part
#Ignoring the other parts of her body
A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown vagina. So start paying them some attention.
#Getting the hand trapped
Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
#Leaving her a little present
Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, so you store it.
#Attacking the Clitoris:
Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris
#Stopping for a break
Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
#Undressing her awkwardly
Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
#Giving her a wedgie during foreplay
Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
#Being obsessed with the Vagina
Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you are not careful, it can hurt- so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her ans see if she likes it.
#Massaging too roughly
You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
#Undressing prematurely
Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if its'just undoing a couple of buttons.
#Taking your pants off first
A man in socks and underpants is at his worst. lose the socks first.
Get more of Mistakes men do during sex that get them screwed up on my next post.
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